“You HAVE to go out during Fresher’s Week! Everyone will think you’re weird if you don’t!”
You really don’t have to go out during Fresher’s Week. Your housemates might find you a little strange if you hide up in your room the entire week and never speak to them, but I’ve never met anyone who isn’t cool with you not going out or not drinking. (See my post here on not drinking during Fresher’s Week).
You’ll be living off of beans on toast.
No.
I’ve tried living off of various tomato sauce covered things on toast. It takes about two days to get bored of that. And you’ll get bored of it to.
Most people are able to afford something a little more extravagant than that. Even my flat mate who goes out every week can afford curly chips and pizza.
And on that note…
You’ll be living in your overdraft.
Ok, I know a lot of people who are in their overdraft at the moment. I’m edging ever closer to it. But if you budget properly, you can make it to the end of the semester, just about…
Much like having to go out on Fresher’s Week, this isn’t true. You’ll hear me talk a lot about how amazing extra-curricular is, and I loved it the past however many years, but this year I haven’t been doing much society-wise (so far). If you don’t have time, you don’t have time. Though it is amazing for making friends and will “enhance your CV”, it’s not a necessity.
You’ll be living in squalor.
Ok, I’m a student, so maybe I’m not the best person to judge this, and if my mum came round, she’d probably be disgusted at the state of my room, but it really isn’t that bad. Definitely not as bad as people would like to make you think.
I live in halls, where we have a cleaner that comes a couple of times a week but, between the seven of us, we manage to keep the place relatively clean.
That said, sometimes the night after an amazing night out can look… not that great.
Lecturers are really unhelpful.
I’ve no idea where this one comes from, but a lot of people told me it before I started university and this is not true in the slightest.
My tutor last year, bless him, had to deal with a fair bit from me, from sarcastic emails about meetings rearranged into the past, to emails whilst sent sobbing at midnight. He was really helpful, even writing my referee statement for applying to another university.
This year, I’ve spoken to my lecturers outside of lectures multiple times, even stopping them in the street to grab a question that has absolutely nothing to do with the course. Maybe I’ve just gotten lucky, but lecturers being unhelpful is definitely a myth.
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